Luna Orignaux

Until the last few years, the bulk of my sex toys were DYI projects. In fact, before internet shopping became commonplace for me, I didn’t even know you could buy most of this stuff. I would dream up all kinds of ideas and then try to figure out how to make them work. Trips to the hardware store had me seeing potential items for bondage gear on nearly every aisle. I would wonder around, sometimes for hours, planning new project or searching for just the right supplies. Ultimately an employee would approach me and ask, “Can I help you find something?” It was hard not to laugh. Sometimes they kept pushing, following me around, asking question, and generally acting like there was some problem with me picking out items without assistance. Then my dungeon fantasies would turn to the less pleasurable.

Having this mindset, I can’t tell you how many times I have absently played with a belt, looping it around and fashioning it into cuffs. I was never really happy with the results. More recently I discovered that my boyfriend has the same habit. I have to wonder just how many people actually do this. So, I was absolutely thrilled when I came across a belt online that is designed specifically to work this way.

I have seen plenty of bondage belts, some quite fashionable, but most not very practical for everyday wear. This belt is different. It looks pretty much like a very plain, basic leather belt. A little bit of extra hardware, but it’s very subtle and completely inline with the belt. No O-rings or D-rings, or anything flashy or dangly to get snagged and hung up on in everyday wear. Adding to the convenience is the fact that this is a self-contained unit. The belt itself loops around into cuffs, so there is no need for any kind of attachments. You don’t need anything to go with this belt to use it as a bondage device, making it the perfect accessory for anyone who likes to be prepared for spontaneous sex in unlikely places.

I love this belt. It is quick and easy to use, and it makes for comfortable cuffs. It doubles nicely as a regular belt. It doesn’t have that cheap, novelty item look and feel. If your personal fetish requires escape-proof restraints, this might be a little on the lightweight side for you. It is not that difficult to slip out of, at least if you’re good at that kind of thing, but I think the convenience and portability of the item more than makes up for it. Not to mention the enticing nature of wearing it or knowing your partner is wearing it.

Women have so many clothing items at their disposal to build sexual tension or create a fun surprise. We can wear sexy lingerie under the most boring looking outfit and know where that’s going, or even flash it to someone now and then to let them in on the secret. Men don’t really have that option. This belt is the perfect solution for men who want their own version of that kind of teaser. Of course, for women, it just adds to the toolbox.

I have been intrigued by the idea of wax play since long before I lost my virginity, but hadn’t tried it until now. I have played with candle wax since I was a kid, but never in this capacity.

If you research the subject, you will find endless information on what types of candles to use, which ones produce what temperatures, techniques, safety guidelines, what to wear and not wear when doing it, how to produce different physical and visual effects, and how to clean up. For me, it was an overwhelming amount of information and I got all wrapped up in trying to choose the right candles. Trying to weed through it and make a decision caused me to put it off for over a year after I got serious about trying it.

Then one day when I was picking out sex toys I came across a set of three Japanese Drip Candles, and decided it was time to take the plunge. It turns out that these are not right for me, as far as wax play goes, but it did give me a better idea of what to look for and as mood-setting candles go they’re great. What I need is something with a cooler wax that will pool more. Now I know.

I think these candles would work great for people looking for an inexpensive addition to their BDSM toy box, as long as you can take the heat.

On the up-side for me, these are nice looking candles with a mild, pleasant fragrance that hasn’t set off my allergies. They will get used up creating atmosphere, which is something I try to do as often as possible. State of mind can be everything, and when you can’t go all out on decorating, it’s amazing how the simple switch to some creative candlelight can transform the room and your mood.