Luna Orignaux

A recent discussion brought to mind the thrill of sex in public. For me sex in public or semi-public places has always been extra exciting. Obviously, I am not the only person who feels this way. It always seemed that the most natural thing in the world to me; both the actual act of having sex in public place and finding it exciting.

It started out as the easiest place when I was a teenager and couldn’t get away with it at home. It was actually easier to get some bit of privacy out and about. That’s not so unusual, really. It’s where “parking” came from.

Later, when I was grown and could just go home, it was a matter of convenience and urgency. Who wants to let the heat of the moment slip away by waiting until you get home? What if you’re not even ready to go home, you’re just ready for a quick fuck and then back to the festivities?

Like I said, it just seemed perfectly natural, so where does the thrilling part come in? I know that for some the real thrill is the risk of getting caught. That was never my thing. It can certainly add to the intensity, but since becoming a legal adult, I have not had any reason to fear the consequences. I have been caught on more than one occasion and was simply told to go home or get a room. It was a good laugh, but nothing really exiting about it. Of course, with partners who actually were afraid of getting caught, the fact that they were so turned on that they were willing to risk it only made it more exciting for me.

The real thrill is the urgency. The fact that you want it so bad right now you can’t wait to go home or somewhere more convenient and comfortable. You just can’t wait at all. It has to be here and now! And knowing that undeniable desire and excitement is the motivation makes the thought of sex in public exciting in itself.

The biggest thrill is being with someone who doesn’t care about being seen or getting caught; being with someone who feels no need to hide their desire or their sexuality. I think it’s the combination of the confidence to be yourself and the willingness to let the attraction show publicly for all the world to see that really does it for me there. Complete and total, passionate, unfettered self-expression is so sexy!

So, what about you? Does the thought of sex in public places thrill you? If so, why?

You can read the story at The Hartford Currant or The Journal Inquirer. They just keep arresting more people for this. So, here’s the story.

There was a swinger’s party at a hotel in early November. Police officers went undercover to try and bust these people having sex in public. According to the police the swingers were having sex in the bar, while it was open to the public, and lobby of the hotel. According to the party goers it was a private party and any sex involved happened in hotel rooms not the bar and the lobby.

My first question is – Why would you need to go undercover to bust people having sex in public? None of the news stories I have read raise that question, but it seems like the most obvious one to me.

One of the attorneys said, “The police officers that attended had to go through at least four, possibly five steps to attend.” That is a lot of work to gain access to a supposedly public view of people having sex.

My second question is – How do they justify using tax dollars for this kind of operation? Even if they were having sex in a situation that could be technically classified as public, does anyone really care? Does anyone really care about “public” sex that is that hard to gain access to?

They arrested the owner and manager of the hotel, the permit holder of the bar. That part kind of made sense at first, knowing that in some places it is illegal to mix visible genitals with the sale of alcohol. That doesn’t explain the charges, though. They were charged with being accessories to obscenity and public indecency.

Overall, none of it really makes sense. Why are they dragging this out for so long and continuing to arrest people? Why go to trouble of conducting an undercover operation involving police and liquor control agents for something like this? It sounds like someone’s personal crusade or vendetta to me.